There’s a problematic myth in society that simply because you’re a “nice” guy, you deserve rewards (usually in the form of sexual favors). When those rewards aren’t provided, we as women often get girlfriendzoned.
The Death of Courtship: A Traumatic Tale of ‘Love,’ Loss, and What I Wasn’t Wearing
Similar to a near-death experience, my dating life flashed before my eyes. This, I concluded, was my sexual rock bottom.